Answer: rikuun (陸運)
prone to arguing
When you're arguing your body prepares for a fight: your heart rate goes up your blood pressure increases you might start to sweat. In short you drop into fight-or-flight mode. Marriage researcher John Gottman calls this "flooding".
A person who wants to argue all the time with you (or with everyone) is angry competitive or insecure. They have learned that arguing and intimidation gets results. Arguing is a way to protect defend or control one's emotional turf. Relentless arguing is a form of bullying and it is very damaging.
In these situations we're more prone to arguing. Yes it's obviously better not to argue with others. However if we can't avoid arguing learning how to avoid the most common mistakes people make when they argue may be very useful. When we get into a verbal fight we usually tend to make mistakes over and over again.
The definition of argumentative is someone or something that is prone to starting disagreements. An example of people who are argumentative are news personalities on opinion based television programs. An example of an argumentative attitude is a person who always says controversial things just to stir up trouble.
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